Untangling Your Questions

ECM & How It Works

How does ECM work, and what makes it different from other healing methods?

The Emotional Clearing Method (ECM) is a proven approach that helps release emotional trauma at its root by working directly with the unconscious mind. Unlike traditional talk therapy, ECM doesn’t require you to relive or explain painful memories. Instead, it gently addresses the emotional patterns behind the experience, creating space for deep healing without retraumatization. The process is calm, focused, and highly effective.

Is ECM safe?

Yes. ECM is a gentle and non-invasive approach that works in harmony with your nervous system. Because it doesn’t involve revisiting painful memories, it allows healing to unfold in a way that feels emotionally safe and manageable. This creates space for deep release without overwhelm.

Will I forget my trauma after ECM?

No. ECM does not erase your memories. Instead, it releases the emotional charge attached to them. You’ll still remember what happened, but the intensity, pain, or reactivity connected to those memories are no longer present. This creates freedom, not forgetting.

Do I have to talk about my trauma during sessions?

No. You don’t need to talk about or revisit painful memories for ECM to be effective. Healing happens through the gentle release of stored emotional patterns, not by retelling your story. This allows for deep transformation in a way that feels safe, private, and grounded.

The ECM Signature Untangled Experience

Is this program only for women who experienced narcissistic abuse, or can it help with other trauma too?

While the Emotional Clearing Method (ECM) is effective for a variety of emotional challenges, the ECM Signature Untangled Experience is exclusively designed for women in narcissistic abuse recovery. This program is tailored to address the specific emotional wounds and patterns that emerge from toxic, manipulative relationships, providing deep, specialized healing.

Is prior or ongoing therapy required?

No, therapy is not required to begin this journey. However, emotional stability is necessary to participate in this next-level healing experience. If you are currently navigating significant mental health challenges, it is best to prioritize therapeutic support before exploring the ECM Signature Untangled Experience.

What if I’m still in contact with the narcissist?

Because this program focuses on next-level healing, you will need to be out of the abusive situation before starting. The ECM Signature Untangled Experience is designed for women who have already begun or are actively moving through their healing process. If you are still in contact with the narcissist, take time to safely step out of that environment and begin your healing before starting this deeper emotional work.

How long are the sessions, and how much daily time do I need to commit?

Each weekly session typically lasts 30 to 60 minutes. Outside of sessions, the daily or weekly time commitment is flexible and depends on which integrative tools or practices you choose from the guidebook. You can spend just a few minutes each day with simple mindfulness exercises, or you may prefer to schedule regular time for self-reflection and somatic practices. This experience can be shaped around what works best for your lifestyle.

Results & Expectations

How will I know if ECM is working?

Some people notice a shift right away, feeling lighter, clearer, or more at ease. Others experience a slower transformation, where old patterns begin to fade and triggers no longer carry the same weight. Signs that ECM is working may include:

A sense of emotional relief or lightness
Feeling less reactive to past experiences
A stronger connection to your inner clarity and confidence
More ease when setting and honoring your boundaries

Do you guarantee results?

Healing is deeply personal, and no one-size-fits-all outcome can be promised. ECM is a proven method for releasing emotional blocks at their source, but how you experience transformation will depend on your readiness, commitment, and integration of the work.

Can ECM be done alongside therapy or other healing modalities?

Yes, ECM can complement other healing practices, but it is not a replacement for therapy or medical treatment. ECM can be a powerful addition to your healing journey, helping to release emotional burdens that traditional therapy may not fully resolve.

Program Logistics & Policies

Do you work with international clients?

Yes. I welcome international clients who meet the program’s criteria. Blossom Untangled™ is an online private practice, making it possible to support accomplished women worldwide. As long as you align with the structure and expectations of the program, your location will not limit our ability to work together.

Is the program fully online, or do you offer in-person sessions?

All sessions are held online using a secure, private platform. This format creates a flexible and confidential space for deep work, without the need for travel or in-person logistics.

When will I receive details about the investment for this program?

You’ll find the full investment details at the end of the application form, just before you submit. This ensures you have a clear understanding of what the program involves before making any financial commitment.

What is your refund and cancellation policy?

Because this experience is deeply personalized and space is limited, enrollment is considered a final commitment. A three-day cancellation window is available after enrollment. After that period, refunds are not offered.

Please Note:

Due to the deeply personal and protected nature of this work, I do not maintain a public contact form.
If you are a woman interested in the ECM Signature Untangled Experience, please begin with the Emotional Readiness Self-Assessment.